‘So where are you from’ ? A question that comes up ever so
often. The simple answer is to quote
what your passport proclaims as your homeland. But, over time, especially, if
you live away from your ancesteral roots, that reply rings hollow.
There are several like me in my current ‘temporary’
residence – global nomads- coming here between 2 landings…they are on their way
to another land, just stopping here for a couple of years in the interim. And
there are those that came straight from their homeland, but have stayed here
way longer than they planned to.
Every place we live in-changes us a little. We begin to see
the world a little differently, than when we did when we were back home. We are
changed by the people we meet, the new festivals we learn to enjoy, the foods
our palates begin to consider as familiar, the new lifestyles we adopt. We get
comfortable with a hug and a kiss, as much as with a folded hand when we greet.
We adapt what we wear, how we speak, how we think. We open our hearts and our
minds to new experiences everyday, and slowly, but surely, we are no longer the
same people we were when we left our homeland.
But we still cling on to pieces of our mangled confused
roots. Try to pass on our (now subtly changed) values, celebrate our (not- so-
traditional ) festivals, speak in our (not so fluent) language. And so,we don’t quite belong to where we live
either. As our journey continues, no
matter where we head to next, we are now homeless –and rootless- forever. For,
now, we can never truly ‘belong’ anywhere with the completeness and the abandon
of those that never left.
2 comments:
Damn - I wish I had written this! It's beautiful!
Thanks bubbs. That means a lot. Really.
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